How You Can Be An Unforgettable Teacher For Each Of Your Students

Last week I conducted a presentation entitled, ‘Dealing With Learning Difficulties And Autism In A Classroom,’ to a group of enthusiastic teachers at Harmony Montessori.


Teaching is a noble profession.
Teachers inspire me.


The responsibility resting on their shoulders is immense.
They have the biggest hand in shaping the youth of the country.


The young, dynamic teachers at the presentation, asked a few questions.


You might be interested in their questions too.


1. How would you recognize if a child has autism at a young age of  1.5 years?


This is a frequently asked question.


While we don’t want to be in a hurry to dish out a diagnosis, we must be aware of ‘red flags.’


I used the video below to elucidate those red flags.



The video, entitled ‘The early signs of autism,’ makes it far easier to zero in on red flags, doesn’t it?


It highlights the following-


a) effective communication and sharing enjoyment
b) making social connections
c) seeing social opportunity through play


Once you become aware of the red flags, do draw the parents’ attention to them as well.


It’s important to do this gently and lovingly and encourage the parents to seek further help.


2. Another teacher had a question about the above video segment timed 3.00- 4.20 mins.


Since we teach in a Montessori fashion, we give time to children to explore. We see children like the little boy all the time.
What if the child is just exploring and is not autistic?


That was a brilliant question and good observation by the teacher.


The key point is ‘pervasiveness.’


Ask other teachers if they’ve picked up something too.


Was it a single incident in which the child was super engaged in something and did not respond to you? Or are other teachers seeing it too?


Also, a give away is sharing enjoyment and including others in the play activity.


Does the child frequently like to play alone and not include others?


Watch carefully for this.


3. Is it all right to take a child out of the classroom if s/he is having a difficult time?


If a child is disturbed and is disturbing others, it might be a good idea to take them out of the classroom.


Not as a punishment, but because you want to give them a chance to regulate themselves.


Keep in mind how sensitive a child on the spectrum could be.




Observation is the key.


I had a student in a regular classroom who would end up hurting other children, when she was stressed, despite having a shadow teacher.


The teacher had to take the girl out after she had become aggressive.


On discussion with the mother and shadow teacher, we realized there was a pattern.


a) The child would start with twirling her hair.
b) Then she would get possessive about her books.
c) Followed by her speech getting repetitive.
d) Finally, she would lash out at another child.


We decided to intervene at step 1, when we noticed her twirling her hair.


The shadow teacher would step in to take her out for a walk or toss a ball back and forth in the passage. This enabled the child to calm down and when she was calmer, they entered the class again.


Note: Every child needs a customized plan as each one is unique and every school is differently set up.


Dear Teacher,


You signed up for teaching ‘normal’ students.
But there is no such thing. Each child is unique and beautiful in his or her own way.


Thank you for choosing this noble profession.


We need you. You’re wanted. You’re cherished.


And you’re not alone.


At SAI Connections, we’ve started an after school 2 hour training for young students with learning difficulties. (Upto age 10)


Our aim is to support students and teachers.


To this end we work closely with teachers to understand their difficulties.
Once we understand their difficulties, we work closely with the student to remediate these issues.


What do we hope to achieve?
We want the young ones to do well at regular school and we want teachers to not feel stressed and teach efficiently.




All kids need is a little help, a little hope and somebody who believes in them.

– Magic Johnson


We, at SAI Connections believe in you. We’re here to support you.




  • Sulabha Krishnan says:

    Thank you, Kamini, for this article. It reflects exactly the way I feel right now about my daughter’s education. My 10 yr-old Aparna was diagnosed with ASD when she was 5…She joined an Early Intervention program (Preschool to Kindergarten) when she was 3, and I was very heartened by that school’s approach of love and acceptance for every child…Their dedication and devotion to improve her motor/language/social skills was of great benefit to her…Her current (Elementary) school also has dedicated staff, but I can’t make peace with their ABA approach which seems to focus entirely on behaviour…Instead of seeing her as a unique person with strengths/weaknesses, they try to ‘normalize’ her behaviour to resemble that of neurotypical students…Her anxiety has only worsened, and her confidence reduced by this approach…I’m on the lookout for a special ed school that can build her confidence and independence with the kind of ‘acceptance’ approach we saw in her preschool.

    • Thank you for sharing about Aparna, Sulabha.

      I understand how you must feel.
      The anxiety is a give away and most difficult to handle.

      Your thinking is very sorted, Sulabha. It will stand Aparna in good stead.

      Do let me know if I can do anything.

      • Sulabha Krishnan says:

        Much thanks for the kind words, Kamini. It feels good to be understood once in a while :) We live in Cheshire, CT, USA. Although I have some differences with the Special Ed school approach for older kids (5+), this small town has a wonderful community that has been very supportive and friendly. We have year-round recreational activities for special needs children…Some of these have some neurotypical kids as volunteers- which shows kindness and compassion in this community. Perhaps some of my disagreements with the school system could be ‘culture-based’ differences of socially acceptable behaviour…I believe that Aparna’s confidence would increase ( and anxiety would reduce) if she became little more independent with self-care skills…So before I hasten to look for another school, I’m going to find an Occupational therapist who can help with these skills. Much thanks for your offer to help…Perhaps we can still meet next time we’re in Mumbai, India:)
        Best wishes,

        • Support from community is wonderful, Sulabha.

          Best wishes for finding the best professionals to support you on your journey.

          It would be my pleasure to meet you when you’re in Mumbai next.

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